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.Thursday, September 07, 2006 'Y
day happened to be shine-d by stars...



Communication is so important in relationships. When one just kept quiet and refused to share, how can the other read his mind? Is it hereditary or learned? I would say this behaviour is both hereditary and learned. Miscommunication, misunderstanding occurs so frequently when one refused to talk. It is straining on both parties. One party trying so hard to think of what the other is thinking or feeling, at the same time worry for the other person. The other party just kept his mouth shut real tight regardless what one said or asked. Can anyone tell me what can one do in that kind of situation? Choose to ignore? Choose not to care? Choose to be quiet as well? I do not know which should be the solution. But i guess mirror the other party's attitude and reaction will be the best choice. There poses to be another problem here if this happened. If both refused to share or talk, would not the situation be so tense or strange where no communication occurs? Would it not become like two strangers together? If one tries to act that nothing happened or do not care, will it be learned behaviour? After a period of time, will the person really change to become do not care anymore? Based on psychology, indeed this will happen. This is learned behaviour affected by the environment.







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